Quoting: Originally posted by caughtoffguard

I just realized that when I say "I don't care how you look" to date you, I lied. I'm a real asshole and a lead on.

I seriously thought I could overcome physical attraction and go for personally all the way, but I can't. I honestly can't!

I'd have to look at you every time. I'd have to be with you every time.

Is it okay to be that shallow?

I honestly did think that it shouldn't matter, just as long as you're a good person inside, but it's not. I'm such a hypocrite. I guess that's why guys seem to be such jerks at the beginning and not responding. The whole "lead you on, you might like me, and I won't like you" kind of thing. Even if personality is the best.. you need SOME sort of attraction.

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I seriously feel like an asshole and a hypocrite.

I guess too, that I am young and that maybe I feel I could find someone with the whole package? (Not sounding too nasty/big headed)

I guess this is how it feels to break a heart. I just don't know whether or not other's feel like this because I feel horrible!!!

I am seriously sorry, though. =/

I just realized that when I say "I don't care how you look" to date you, I lied. I'm a real asshole and a lead on.

I seriously thought I could overcome physical attraction and go for personally all the way, but I can't. I honestly can't!

I'd have to look at you every time. I'd have to be with you every time.

Is it okay to be that shallow?

I honestly did think that it shouldn't matter, just as long as you're a good person inside, but it's not. I'm such a hypocrite. I guess that's why guys seem to be such jerks at the beginning and not responding. The whole "lead you on, you might like me, and I won't like you" kind of thing. Even if personality is the best.. you need SOME sort of attraction.

=/

I seriously feel like an asshole and a hypocrite.

I guess too, that I am young and that maybe I feel I could find someone with the whole package? (Not sounding too nasty/big headed)

I guess this is how it feels to break a heart. I just don't know whether or not other's feel like this because I feel horrible!!!

I am seriously sorry, though. =/

Quoting: Originally posted by playabigd

yeah you have to find something physically attractive about them but it can also grow as you get to know them

yeah you have to find something physically attractive about them but it can also grow as you get to know them

Quoting: Originally posted by kewanna2007

Ditto on what ozredhead62 said!

Ditto on what ozredhead62 said!

Quoting: Originally posted by ozredhead62

There has to be some attraction to them physically, though this does not always have to be present when you first meet.

I have been with men that as I learned to like them I became attracted to how they looked as well.

If you dont feel like kissing him and there is not enough attraction there for that, well there is nowhere else to go.

There has to be some attraction to them physically, though this does not always have to be present when you first meet.

I have been with men that as I learned to like them I became attracted to how they looked as well.

If you dont feel like kissing him and there is not enough attraction there for that, well there is nowhere else to go.