Ok, we talk a lot about love and the search for a substantial relationship on these blogs. However let's pull the shades down for a monent, slip into something more comfortable and open up to the secret desires that are erupting within us all.

I feel a bit comfortable around you folks to share a few intimate details about my life, such as I have been single for almost 2 years now. A large portion of that time was by choice as I needed to heal from my long term relationship break up. The rest  more...

Ok, we talk a lot about love and the search for a substantial relationship on these blogs. However let's pull the shades down for a monent, slip into something more comfortable and open up to the secret desires that are erupting within us all.

I feel a bit comfortable around you folks to share a few intimate details about my life, such as I have been single for almost 2 years now. A large portion of that time was by choice as I needed to heal from my long term relationship break up. The rest of the time was me getting my mind and heart back online so that I could be 100% the person a person would like to be with.

So here is the discussion I spark - When engaging in the dance of getting to know a person you just met...How do you control the beast within that just wants to sexually obliverate your date ? How do you keep your hands off his sexy body and keep your drawers from falling off ? How do you play the non threatening role and leave a kiss at a kiss when you truly want to swallow them whole ?

How can you be good when deep down you want to be soooooo bad ? less...

Quoting: Originally posted by Katwoman1968 You said it True....I think alot of us do! Kris

HEY ,I am only 1100 milea away. Probily take only two days to get there.

Quoting: Originally posted by truefriendinme I wish Butterbll lived near me... --True

HEY, It is roughly only 940 miles from Houston ,TEX. to Charleston,S.C.
I could be there in less than two days.

You ask such "tough" "real" questions. Somedays you can't turn the want off but meeting in public places and going out help but not the cure all. In the long run - you'll be glad but in the meantime - women can have toys.
Anticipation is wonderful and time well spent. I like the idea of the tootsie pop but I always crunch it - lol

Quoting: Originally posted by truefriendinme I wish Butterbll lived near me... --True

You said it True....I think alot of us do!

Kris

I wish Butterbll lived near me...
--True

Oh Vegas can feel that smoldering passion from here. he he xxx

Well like it has been said here by others just keep in public, wont go too far then, unless your into that sort of thing. he he

It really is hard to judge when you should take it to the next level. When is it time to let your nickers drop?

I think that everyone has their own idea about this and it also depends on how the relationship is developing.

But if you still feel that you are going to be tempted, you can always ta  more...

Oh Vegas can feel that smoldering passion from here. he he xxx

Well like it has been said here by others just keep in public, wont go too far then, unless your into that sort of thing. he he

It really is hard to judge when you should take it to the next level. When is it time to let your nickers drop?

I think that everyone has their own idea about this and it also depends on how the relationship is developing.

But if you still feel that you are going to be tempted, you can always take along a chaperon. That's how they used to do it. xxx less...

Hey sparkles2002 some of us guys might like the "Rustic" feel of furry legs and pits. As for the under garments who cares the won't stay on long. But on the serious note to stop shagging your partner like a Hormonally raging teenager.Just think where that behavior got you last time. Used physcally , emotionally rode hard, heart broken and left beside the curb like yesterdays garbage. Dating should be like a TOOTSIE POP. It should take you a long time to get the the sweet fillin  more...

Hey sparkles2002 some of us guys might like the "Rustic" feel of furry legs and pits. As for the under garments who cares the won't stay on long. But on the serious note to stop shagging your partner like a Hormonally raging teenager.Just think where that behavior got you last time. Used physcally , emotionally rode hard, heart broken and left beside the curb like yesterdays garbage. Dating should be like a TOOTSIE POP. It should take you a long time to get the the sweet filling in side , but most just rush to get the rich chocolaty center. less...

Lord bless you! The fact you ask means you have the ability to discriminate, and the power to choose. May I suggest the real fear is treating the ONE as just another temporary lust when you wish to demonstrate control and let the relationship build first. No easy answer and from a guy perspective, same concern. It is a dance between lust and love. If you think this is more than lust, then enjoy the power of letting the flower blossom at your pace. -- Bill

I totally agree wtih Sparkles. BUT... if my pants just HAPPENED to fall off ;)... Seriously, folks, I'm pretty much a prude, in today's day and age. I am very discriminate about who and what I do. Shoot, while I'm into the interrogatories: who, what , when, where, why AND how I "do"...lol! I just happen to think it's very easy to refrain from the carnal connection. But that's just me. I sincerely hope, though, that one day I will meet the ONE. And that we will KNOW. And that we   more...

I totally agree wtih Sparkles. BUT... if my pants just HAPPENED to fall off ;)... Seriously, folks, I'm pretty much a prude, in today's day and age. I am very discriminate about who and what I do. Shoot, while I'm into the interrogatories: who, what , when, where, why AND how I "do"...lol! I just happen to think it's very easy to refrain from the carnal connection. But that's just me. I sincerely hope, though, that one day I will meet the ONE. And that we will KNOW. And that we will NOT be able to keep our hands off each other. And my skivies will fall off. I'll make DAMN sure of it...--True less...

I understand your problem.I am newly single and am missing the great. What I do is make sure I do not go to their place or bring them to mine. If you are out in public there is no way anything more then a kiss could take place.

dude from 'something about mary' had it right. just masturbate (WELL) before your date. give yourself a mind blowing orgasm or three before your date arrives... should hold you off for a couple of hours. lol

The easy way,,,don't start to begin with,,,don't kiss until you know you feel something and have a connection,,,I have been celebate for over a year now,,,,by choice,,,I won't settle... I want it all !!!!!